...and what about grace?

Chapter Two: ...and Baby Makes Three

2011-09-16T12:54:00.000-07:00

"Chapter One: Gettin' Hitched" was so great. From dreaming, to planning, to execution.. everything was wonderful. However, I never recapped our wedding. To be honest, I couldn't recap our wedding until January 2011 - a full six months after our wedding. This was because our wedding was selected to be one of three featured weddings in Seattle Bride Magazine. They frown upon blog inclusion until after the issue has been printed... and by the time that the issue came out I was so consumed with other things that I just didn't make time to blog. I have so much to share from our day - so many special moments, memories and photos... and that will come with time.

...but right now I have something more important to share.

We are expecting a baby! Our son (name TBA) will be making his grand appearance sometime around December 4, 2011. We are so incredibly excited to be adding to our family - and yes, even Miss Grace is excited to be a big sister. :)

We started trying to get pregnant in October of 2010. It happened almost immediately. By December 5, 2010 we had a positive pregnancy test sitting on our bathroom counter and smiles plastered on our faces. The joy we felt was indescribable. We were going to be parents - our estimated due date was August 16, 2011. We interviewed doctors and found the most incredible team at Evergreen Woman's Care at Evergreen Hospital. We announced our pregnancy to our families on Christmas morning and our closest friends at a holiday party we hosted. Life. Was. Perfect.

And then, right after we told our families on Christmas, I started spotting. I was terrified. I spotted continuously between Christmas and New Years Day. And then it stopped. During the spotting I was on the phone with my doctor's office daily with updates. They explained that, if I was in fact losing the baby, that there was nothing that could be done to save the baby... that it was too early in the pregnancy...

Sure enough, beginning of January we learned that we had lost our baby. This was/is quite possibly one of the hardest things I have ever experienced in my life. It's so hard to explain the feeling... We were only approximately 6-8 weeks along in the pregnancy when the spotting started, but by then my body and emotions had definitely been taken over by the pregnancy. Changes had taken place and I was very attached to the thought of being a mother. I felt like a failure. And, even though I know that there was nothing that could have been done by doctors to save the baby NOR was there anything that I could have done differently to ensure that the baby would keep and continue to grow, I still felt like a failure. I felt like a horrible wife - that I couldn't give my husband a child. If you've read or seen The Help - the character Celia Foote does an incredible job depicting how I felt after my miscarriage. (Not sure if it is the same for all women...) The miscarriage really affected me. Looking back now, I can say that it definitely was the catalyst that spun me into a depression. I drank a lot of wine, spent a lot of time alone, and just wasn't myself.

By March I had realized what was happening. I wasn't happy and I was stuck. I started working hard to make positive changes in my life - figuring out what I needed to do to better myself. If I was happy and healthy, I could get pregnant again. So I joined Weight Watchers, started walking/exercising, and cut back on the wine. I was seeing results and was feeling great.

One weekend I was getting ready to start an Advocare cleanse and I was reading the instructions... "If you are pregnant or suspect you are pregnant, do not participate int he cleanse." That's when it hit me. I couldn't remember my last period. My husband went down to the local drugstore and came back with a test...

Beginning of April, only four short months after our miscarriage, we were pregnant again... and this time we weren't even trying. We were almost 8 weeks pregnant.

Weeks 8-12 were really difficult. I was absolutely terrified that I was going to go through everything that I had just gone through a few months prior... We went to the doctor at 12 weeks and confirmed our pregnancy. Everything was textbook perfect. Week 13 we went to Hawaii with our close friends to celebrate a marriage. We shared the news with the world the week of Father's Day at 16 weeks pregnant. Everyone has been so incredibly supportive and excited for this pregnancy, it really has been incredible.

We are currently 28wks 6days pregnant with 11wks 1day left on the countdown. We have a huge, healthy, active life growing inside of me. I am so in love with my son and I haven't even met him yet. The pregnancy has been wonderful. I love being pregnant - especially now that we are in the "safe zone." Everything is great, and I'll even take the swollen feet/ankles/legs and jabs under my ribs.

I can already tell he takes after his daddy - he likes to bother me when I am trying to sleep. :)

Here are some photos from our 20wk ultrasound. He's gorgeous, isn't he?

Sucking his thumb already... and it looks like his left hand. Maybe he'll be a lefty?

I love his button nose.

Definitely a big boy. When we shared this photo with our doctor he exclaimed, "Wow! Nice sac!" and my husband simply smiled proudly. :)

So, that's it. We're expecting. Can't wait to re-enter blog-land....and catch up on everything!

Wedding Teasers

2010-07-30T14:25:00.000-07:00

It's official. We're married!!! The day could not have gone any better. The day was absolute dream. We are still on a high from everything - the laughter, the tears, the dances, the speeches. It was so surreal and incredible. Things could not have gone more perfectly.

Life is great. ... except on our way home from our "mini-moon" to Cannon Beach we were rear-ended by some poor schmuck that wasn't paying attention. My back is killing me, but at least we're not in the hospital or anything.

Here are a few teasers from our photographer, Kristen Honeycutt. I will start recaps and explain everything once I have all the images. Enjoy! :)

Our first look:
I wanted a "serious" pic. Nobody got it....until they saw this:
Our first dance as Mr. & Mrs - Crash (Live Version) by Dave Matthews Band:

I will post more and start recaps when I have all the pics!

Love,

The Mrs.

Engagement Photos by Kristen Honeycutt

2010-06-30T13:00:00.000-07:00

With my life as crazy at it is right now, I have decided to post recaps of everything. Between work (with a fiance who has been laid off), travel, more work, wedding, family, and everything else... writing daily blog posts has taken the back burner. I still check my reader, I've just been silent.

We're getting married in 17 days. SEVENTEEN DAYS!!! I can't believe it.

To start "recaps"....here's some of our engagement photos courtesy of the ever-so-amazing Kristen Honeycut t.

Ahhh...Kristen Honeycutt. So thankful to have found you. :)

She's Alive......SHE'S ALIVE!!!!

2010-03-11T01:42:00.000-08:00

::whispers:: Is anybody out there?

Hi. Guess who? ::blushing:: :) It's me, Eva. Over here at ...and what about grace?. Yeah - I kind of disappeared. Ok, I'll be honest. I totally disappeared.I sill read all 200-something of the blogs in by Google Reader on a daily basis. I've just.....completely neglected you.

You might be wondering where I went. In all honesty, I didn't go anywhere. I've been working, drinking wine, and putting the final touches on the wedding.

Live has been overwhelming, to say the least. Work is challenging me more than ever - but I am determined to power through it. Things are picking up significantly, and I am the type of person who thrives in an uber-stressfull, "too-much-work-to-do-in-eight-hours" work situation.

My fiance was laid off last week. That was a shocker. The week prior he had been talking to his boss about his annual review started negotiating a raise. Well - his boss and the owner must not have been fully communicating, because when Trevor went in for his annual review, he found out that he was one of six employees being laid off. (This is a small company - there are less than six people working there now, including the owner and receptionist.) To be jobless in this economy is pretty much terrifying and paralyzing. To top that? To be jobless in this economy in the Heating And Air Conditioning industry during one of Seattle's most mild winters on record is pretty much terrifying and paralyzing. No cold snaps = no broken furnaces = no work. And obviously it's not hot enough for Seattlites to want to use their air conditioning units (all six of those on Mercer Island who own A/C......I kid.), so there's none of that work either.

Talk about wedding stress. The economy coupled with crappy unemployment pay makes paying for this wedding extremely stressful. (But, no complaints about unemployment, we'll take it!)

Oh - yeah - and I was totally convinced for about ten days that I was going blind. Turns out that, from excessive crying, uncharactistically warm winter weather, and my fabulous change in diet (I am eating healthy and I love it, seriously!) has caused me to suffer from dry eyes. I might be farsighted too, but we're checking on that in four weeks. (I wouldn't mind rocking some cute glasses - not to sound vein or anything - but I think they look pretty sweet on me. There. I said it.)

Even though our work lives (or lack thereof) have been challening so far this year - we have been blessed in other ways:

My baby brother, who really isn't much of a baby, was accepted into the Masters of Education program at University of Puget Sound. A huge achievement! We are so proud.
My other brother, the middle child, has 99.9% decided to remain living in South Korea for another year. He's making excellent money teaching English over there - able to pay all his living expenses, massive student loan payments, and still save. I miss him like hell, but can you blame the guy?
Trevor had a job interview on Tuesday and things went great! We're praying and keeping our fingers crossed and putting out all of our trolls and horseshoes and rubbing buddah's belly....hoping that there's enough work at this company for him to be hired as a full-time team member.
I have changed my eating habits in a serious way....and just from making changes I've already lost 10 pounds!!! It feels incredible. I'm eating 5-6 small meals a day (that includes snacks)....focusing on measuring/weighing all my foods, eating tons of veggies, fruit, fish, lean beef, chicken, all whole-wheat carbs (no refined sugar, white flour, fast food, energy drinks, etc.). I feel incredible. My energy levels are increasing....and I am bound and determined to make it in to the gym or go for a jog at least once this week. I have been walking Grace with my Mom and her boyfriend (Grace's boyfriend) Buster on a pretty regular basis, too.

So. That's my life right now.

I'd really like to start blogging again, if you'll take me back.

I have so much to share with you.

Here's a list of the projects that I have worked on since December:

I made chalkboards. TONS of chalkboards. To be used throughout the wedding day as signage. I've decided I love chalkboards.
I re-finished frames. Some are being used to make chalkboards. Others are props for the faux-to booth.
I hit the jackpot at a local antique store and found 14 vintage Ball Perfect Mason Jars for $45 total. Naturally, I snagged them. I took all the other clear mason jars that I had and painted them to look like the vintage Ball Perfect Jars. They don't look identical, but they're pretty damn close. And I saved a TON of moolah.
I inherited a ton of vintage bone china from one of my bridesmaids - and came up with an adorable way to incorporate the mis-matched gorgeous china into the wedding decor.
I stocked up on store-bought cake stands for our desserts....and also purchased enough supplies from Value Village to make some.
I frequented all Seattle-area Vallue Villages, St. Vincent de Paul, and any other thrift stores for wedding supplies: plates for cake stands, mason jars, candy buffet jars, etc.
I finished designing the wedding invitations with my friend Sigrid. They're printed and cut to size....and I'm getting together with girlfriends to assemble.
With the help of others, I found three of the four missing addresses on our guest list.
I stamped 200 bags for the candy buffet with our monogram. They're adorable.
My Matron of Honor, Maid of Honor, and I made 16 awesome moustaches on sticks. I know, I know, it's such a trend. But they're effing awesome. And I love them. (We even made the "Charlie Chaplin"....which can be mistaken for the "Hitler".....so watch out!!!)
We started the music list.
I made my veil. It's beautiful.
I found an awesome headband to wear at a shower or some sort of wedding-related party.
My wonderful and gorgeous bridesmaids were all measured and selected dresses. They'll be here end of April.
I've started getting anxious about my dress arriving.
We selected suits for all of the men and was able to snag them at an AMAZING price during Macy's President's Day Sale in January. IZOD 2-Button Navy Suits for $97.00 each Incredible. They look smashing. Classic. Wonderful.
We've decided on a gift for the men. I am excited about it.
I made customized hangers for all of my girls. Started with regular wooden hangers, refinished them, antiqued them, and then added each girls' name. Darling!!!
The vintage hankies I ordered came in the mail!
I started tanning. It's 12 minutes of heaven a few times a week. Most enjoyable, especially during exceptionally stressful days. The perfect lunch "vacation." I'm actually developing nice color, which I have always struggled with.
We booked an amazing getaway car - at the request of my parents since we will be enjoying beverages of the adult variety on the big day.
We booked our bartenders!
We decided on our yummy desserts that will be proudly displayed on cake stands on each table! (See side bar for links.)
I took an inventory of all of the items that we have finished for the wedding and started packaging things up in labeled boxes. Trying to make things easy!
We've decided on a style for our programs - so I will start designing those.
I started a design for the rehearsal dinner invite - still need to do some planning for this with Trev's mama!
We finished registering! What a fun project!
I hand addressed every. single. invitation. I am happy with the end result.
I've started to remind myself on a hourly basis that I am the only person that will notice any imperfections on the big day. Nobody else will notice that their invitation was just a smidgen different then their neighbor's invitation. Seriously. I am my own worst critic. I've started to care less about everything being perfect, which has helped me with all of this wedding-stress!
We have successfully invested in everything we need for the wedding. There is a laundry list of invoices with balances due - but aside from those (and a few items that we have quotes for...like candy, alcohol, groomsmen gifts...) - we don't need to purchase anything for any craft projects anymore!
I scored some burlap off Craigslist for our table runners. It's awesome. I'm pretty pumped about that.

So yeah. I'm alive. I've actually been very productive.

So. Like I said, I'd really like to start blogging again, if you'll take me back....?

Update: Painting Pottery

2009-12-15T20:00:00.000-08:00

A couple of weekends ago we celebrated my MOH Holly's birthday by painting pottery. We went to the most adorable little pottery shop called Color Me Mine in the Mill Creek Town Center. The owner is fun, spirited, and very helpful.

Here's a reminder of what I painted:

It's a cakestand! I selected the turquoise color. It's so strange painting pottery, because the paint is one color to start...and then after the piece is fired in the kiln, it's a different, more intense color. (In the photos you probably noticed it looks sky-blue...but very light...) On the top of the cakestand I drew our monogram from memory in a very dark brown...with a few artistic interpretations. I felt like the piece was missing something, so I did a row of small dark brown dots along the edge of the piece. I mirrored the dots at the base of the cake stand. On the underside of the cakestand I customized the piece with the date and our names.

I was able to pick up the piece this past Friday and I am so happy with how it turned out! Color Me Mine glazed the piece and fired it in their kiln. It fired to a gorgeous turquoise and the dark brown dots are the perfect accent.

I opted to have the cakestand plate and stand fired separately. All of my other cakestands have the plate and stand adhered together, which makes them diffcult to store. Since I had them fired separately, I can use the plate alone as a platter if I'd like. I just need to remind myself to put items on the plate in even weight when using the stand. I'd hate for it to topple over!

Here's how it turned out:

I am so excited, and Holly said that she's honored, to have this cakestand as part of our wedding. It's special and personalized. What a great keepsake!

...the easy way to make me smile.

2009-12-14T17:00:00.000-08:00

Simply Google Image Search: Pronovias Rebecca.

Etsy Wedding Finds!

2009-12-14T08:00:00.000-08:00

I couldn't sleep last night. So what's a girl to do? Answer: Play around on Etsy. See what's out there. Here are some of my favorite finds...for both purchase and DIY inspiration!

A while back I wrote about vintage French veiling that I purchased. I intend to craft my own veil. (Worst case - if I fail miserably - one of my dear friends and bridesmaid, Lucy, said I could wear her gorgeous ivory veil as my "something borrowed.") Etsy is a fabulous place to look for inspirational pieces!

I love the shape of this veil by Anne Michelle Heirlooms:
And this gorgeous Ivory Feather Flower Fascinator by Pish Poshes provides a sample photo of how the fascinator would look with a birdcage veil:

The lace detailing would look absolutely perfect with my dress....!

...and this would match my dress absolutely perfectly!!!

This fascinator is absolutely gorge.

...but then again, there are some adorable headbands out there. I love rocking a headband...

I am SOOOOO buying this. It's the ribbon version. I WILL find a time to wear it!

...or maybe should I buy the headband version?

I am also constantly on the hunt for cakestands for our desserts... Mini Pies and Gourmet Doughnuts. (See vendors on right side-bar!) I'm loving the look of the vintage plate handmade stands!

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I think that I'll totally be able to make these myself!!

Ahh...Etsy. Thank you so much for your beautiful pictures and wonderful ideas. You inspire me.

Teaser...

2009-12-14T01:23:00.000-08:00

What could Vintage English Bone China be for...?

Babysitting Our Ring Bearer

2009-12-09T08:00:00.000-08:00

One of my Bridesmaids, Lynnae, has one of the cutest babies in the world. A little bit about Lynnae from our Wedding Website:

Lynnae and Eva met on Craigslist. Trevor and Eva were on the prowl for a new roommate so they posted an add on Craigslist to see what kind of crazies we could shake out of that tree. They figured we could have people over for interviews, check 'em out, make sure they weren't serial killers, and maybe even find a roomie.

Lynnae was the first person Trevor and Eva met with. A carbon copy of Eva. But still different enough that there's plenty of room for great conversation.

What a beautiful world.

Lynnae married one of the most amazing men in the world, Colin, in June 2008. Shortly after, they had this little guy: ...and I love him. He's our ring bearer! He just started walking...practicing for his grand entrance at the wedding, I assume. He's just too cute for words:

...and he loves to talk:

Thank you so much Lynnae and Colin. I love spending time with your little one. He absolutely melts my heart.

Anyone else have baby-fever? :)

Getting In Shape...

2009-12-08T10:00:00.000-08:00

I've always been a girl with curves...and I rock them. But, I've probably about 15 pounds curvier that I was when Trev and I met. I've always struggled with keeping a consistent weight, but the wedding has given me the ultimate deadline. I am bound and determined to get in shape before the big day. (Who doesn't feel this way?!) I want to look back at my wedding photos and be happy with everything. The Relentless Bride recently featured the 100 Push Up Challenge, and I am committing to participate. I can just imagine slipping on my wedding dress next July, looking in the mirror, and seeing toned arms, shoulders, and back. That thought makes me happy. A bit about the program:

If you're serious about increasing your strength, follow this six week training program and you'll soon be on your way to completing 100 consecutive push ups!

Think there's no way you could do this? I think you can! All you need is a good plan, plenty of discipline and about 30 minutes a week to achive this goal!

No doubt some of you can already do 50 consecutive push ups, but let's face it, you're in a big minority. Most of you reading this won't even be able to manage 20 push ups. Actually, I'm sure many of you can't even do 10.

However, it really doesn't matter which group you fall into. If you follow the progressive push ups training program, I'm positive you'll soon be able to do 100 push ups!

The beautiful thing about push ups? You don't need a gym membership to do them... and you don't have to brave the cooollllldddddd winter weather to do them either! I could do this during commercial breaks while watching TV. FABULOUS!!! The program even has a cool iPhone app. I'm starting this weekend.

Painting Pottery & Laughing...

2009-12-07T18:35:00.000-08:00

My Maid of Honor, Holly, celebrated her 26th Birthday this past Saturday. I've been friends with Holls forever....

A little snippit from our wedding website:

Holly and Eva met in 7th grade on the school bus to Junior High. Their friendship grew slightly as they learned that Tessa was friends with both of them...and their friendship really kicked into gear when they both got their first jobs at Cinnabon. That's right folks...Holly and Eva worked at Cinnabon. There were plenty of talks, while sitting on icing bins reading gossip mags and eating chips, between the two of the girls. All of the "important talks". Holly and Eva are like Lucy and Ethel. Watch out. ;)

When I asked Holls what she wanted to do for her birthday this year...she simply said, "I want to paint pottery and laugh." And that's what we did.

During the day, Holly, her sister-in-law, Mama, and I went and painted pottery:

Holly

Holly and her SIL

Holly's Mama

Me!

I decided to paint a cakestand to use...

I'll post pics of the finished product next week!

Santa Came to visit

Later that night, Holly, Darren (her boyfriend), Trev, and I went Parlor Live in Bellevue for some comedy... I laughed so hard my face hurt.
Happy Birthday Holls! I love you!!!

Wedding Guest List Spreadsheet

2009-12-07T09:31:00.000-08:00

Please let me know if you'd like a master copy of my spreadsheet template and I'll send it your way! Just leave a comment with your email address and become a follower of the blog!

There are multiple tabs available. The first page is the “Master Guest List” where you'd put everyone’s info. We have multiple wedding events (bach party, showers, a cocktail night, rehearsal, and the actual wedding), so there are areas where you can check who is invited to each event. (I did this just to see the big picture…) I created the other pages so that it would be easy to provide info to everyone that is planning different events…so my MOH will receive the bachelorette party and shower pages, my fiancé’s best man will receive the bachelor party page, my MIL will receive the MIL Shower and rehearsal page, and my mom will receive the cocktail page.

Happy Monday! e.

Our Wedding Bands

2009-12-07T08:00:00.000-08:00

Trevor and I have done a ton of thinking and talking about our wedding bands. He works as an HVAC Technician and his hands get super beat up during the day. (When his hands look dirty, they're usually clean....they're just a mess from his job!) Trev has expressed concern about his wedding band catching on a pair of snips or some sort of equipment....and he's afraid it could be dangerous.

So, we have a plan.

About a month before the wedding, we're going to go and get tattoos. He is thinking about getting a simple black band around his ring finger, the same width as a traditional ring. I am thinking about getting a simple, small half ring (just the top of my ring finger) tattoo of our wedding date, 7.17.10, in Roman numerals. (VII.XVII.X) We still, however, would like to have wedding bands. There are a few reasons for this:

We would like to have wedding bands for the wedding ceremony.
Later in life, Trevor might decide that he wants to wear his wedding band all the time. I would hate for him to have to go out and buy a ring after the fact...why not have a gorgeous, simple, gold band in our jewelry box at home ready and waiting for him to wear?!

Here are some different pics we've been looking to for inspiration:

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Source Unknown! :(

We're still purchasing simple, gold bands for the ceremony. Granted, the wedding band will not match my white hold engagement ring, nor will I be able to wear both at the same time. This doesn't bother me....and as far as I know, it doesn't bother Trev. I'll have the luxury of being able to:

Rock my white gold engagement ring...
Rock my simple gold wedding band...
OR...Rock my tattoo.

:)

Here's a pic of the engagement ring (yes, I know...cheesy myspace photo....):

After tons of thought, Trev and I decided that we really love the simple, 14k gold rings. My parents have simple gold rings...they're beautiful. Traditional. Here are some rings I've been drooling over for our wedding bands:

ArtisanLook on Etsy

ArtisanImpact on Etsy

BloomStudios on Etsy

Beyond the Rockz on Etsy

Sea Baby Jewelry on Etsy

Fabuluster on Etsy

This ring is super cool too...it's made the rounds on a few blogs but it's just too interesting to not post!!!

Fabuluster on Etsy

The creator explains the ring and creation process:

Searching for a truly unique wedding band? Tired of finding the same plain bands or designs that just come from a catalog? This is just what you were looking for. It is many things: unique, sentimental, custom, heirloom quality crafted, and you are completely involved in the making process.

I send you my Impression Kit in the mail. Once you receive it, imprint the entire length of your finger and/or your fiancés finger separately. Then you mail that back to me. Once I receive it here in my studio in beautiful coastal Maine, I make a wax form from the impression material. Then utilizing the ancient lost wax casting process, I turn that impression into a metal ring utilizing gold or silver.

Maybe some day this ring gets passed down to your children- a family heirloom for sure. How romantic! Your lover touching you, holding your finger, always with you.

Super sweet.

So, that's where we stand with rings. Pretty nontraditional...but I love our ideas, and I think Trevor does too...and at the end of the day, that's what matters.

The "Plus One" Worry

2009-12-06T08:00:00.000-08:00

Since we've finished our STDs...I've had a little anxiety. When Trev and I created our guest list, we went through it with both of our Moms and said... "Ok. These people will come. These people won't come, but they'd probably like an invite. These people might come." We over estimated a bit...I have a ton of family in Germany (my Mother's entire side...) and Trev has a ton of family in Illinois.... we anticipate that some will make the trip, but don't expect everyone to. Traveling is expensive! Especially if you're coming from Germany...

Our Spreadsheet

The spreadsheet is huge. I love spreadsheets, don't get me wrong. I love organizing things into rows...creating formulas...color coding things. But this spreadsheet forces me to take Imodium every time I work on it. If every single person came to the wedding that we invited, including President Barak Obama and his family (lol), we'd have around 320 guests. This isn't a problem... our venue holds over 300 people for events that are open to the outdoors. The problem is.....is that we're shooting for about 200-220 guests. Thankfully, with our spreadsheet, we anticipate about 220 people to RSVP "yes"...and I think that it will be less than that.

We have already gone through and added "+1" for a bunch of our friends. We want people to have a great time - and have a buddy by their side while they're celebrating with us! My biggest fear is that the people who we didn't add "+1" to...will RSVP with a "+1."

How do we handle this? I guess we have a ton of time....we're just getting ready to send our our STDs and we'll be sending out international invites late winter and local invites in the spring.

I'm just anxious. I guess this is normal. Is this fear normal? .....where's my Imodium?!??!?

Marilyn Monroe was wrong.

2009-12-05T18:19:00.000-08:00

I hate to say it. She was. SHOES are a girl's best friend....not diamonds. :) The ladies will be wearing gorgeous chocolate brown dresses at the wedding. I've been unsure about how we'll coordinate the shoes....up until now. I've decided that the ladies can wear whatever shoes they'd like, so long as they're in the gold/bronze/brown metallic family.

So today I've begun my research. This is the most important research project during wedding planning thus far. (Riiiggghhhtt.) Ahhhhh....shoes.

Most of these are out of my budget...but aren't they pretty?

Oscar de la Renta Jewel-Toe Platform Pump

Valentino Couture Peep-Toe Pump

Christian Louboutin Glitter Slingback Platform Pump

Tory Burch Peep-Toe Wedge

Manolo Blahnik Rhinestone Buckle d'Orsay

Christin Michaels Faithee Stuart Weitzman Popeye

Marry Monograms!!!

2009-12-05T08:00:00.000-08:00

I've been posting a ton about our monograms that my coworker/friend, Sigrid, designed for Trev and I. I think that her service is deserving of a post. (This isn't a paid sponsor post, people. I just love my Siggy.) Check out Marry Monograms. For only $39.95 you can have your own monogram!!! It's a sweet deal. There's tons of options available...
...and they're all great. :) Here are ours again:

Just think of all the UH-MAZE-ING things you can do with a monogram?!?

STDs
Invitations
Personalized labels
Gift tags
Address labels
Wedding cake design
Dance floor and lighting effects...
Clothing...

So do it. Check out my friends at Marry Monograms. :)

Sankt Nikolaus

2009-12-04T11:11:00.000-08:00

A little history...

My Mother was raised in Germany. My Father was born and raised in Seattle, but his Grandparents were born in Germany. My Mom and Dad met in Eckernförde, Germany...fell in love...and then my Mom moved to Seattle with my Dad.

With that, my two brothers and I have grown up with tons of German traditions. We all went to German language school when we were young, we sing German Christmas songs, we all took German in High School, and we've all traveled to Germany multiple times to see my Mom's 1/2 of the family.

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This Saturday night, Sankt Nikolaus is coming!!! If you didn't grow up in a German household, then this probably means nothing to you. In my family, this is one of the funnest days of the year.

Basically, on the 5th of December everyone writes up their letter to Santa. Children put their letters and lists in their shoes and leave them outside on the front porch. Sankt Nikolaus comes in the middle of the night, with Knecht Ruprecht, and picks up all the lists. If you were a good kid, Sankt Nikolaus leaves candies and other treats in your shoe. If you were a bad kid, Knecht Ruprecht leaves coal in your shoe.

A bit more history about this special day:

In the German-speaking countries December 6th is the most distinctive children's festival of the year. St. Nikolaus Eve is a time of festive stir, it is a time of whispers and giggles, and of heavy steps on the stairs. Shops are full of many-shaped biscuits, gilt gingerbreads, sometimes representing the saint, of sugar images, toys and other little gifts.

When evening comes, St. Nikolaus, a reverend gray-haired figure with flowing beard, bishop's raiment, gold embroidered cope, mitre and pastoral staff, will knock on doors and inquire about the behavior of the children. The custom of examining the children, where they will deliver a verse, sing, or otherwise show their skills, is still widespread in German- speaking countries.

Nikolaus traditions vary as widely from region to region as his guise and name. He appears as Ruhklas, Pelznickel, Klasbur, etc. He is afoot or astride a white horse, a mule, or even a goat. More diverse than those of the saintly Nikolaus are the many legends and traditions surrounding his often wild companions.

His best known companion is Knecht Ruprecht, "Knecht" meaning servant. Historically, Ruprecht was a dark and sinister figure clad in a tattered robe with a big sack on his back in which, legend has it, he will place all naughty children.
Don't forget to leave your list and shoe out on Saturday night!

DIY Project: Save the Dates

2009-12-04T08:00:00.000-08:00

It's December. IT'S DECEMBER!!! I am so happy. I love December. I love Christmas music, trees, decorations....and I love Christmas cards! Trev and I do Christmas cards every year, and this year we're putting our Save the Dates in with our Christmas cards. My Matron of Honor, Tessa, and I got together late on Tuesday night to hammer out all of the Save the Dates. My friend and coworker, Sigrid, designed everything for us.... and I handled all of the printing. ...and I couldn't be happier with the end result!

About the STDs: I found some cards at Paper Zone that were 50% off a few months ago. I decided that, since they were such a great deal, I'd snatch them up. They weren't exactly what I had imagined for our STDs...but at half off, I couldn't be picky. I wanted the STDs to be cute AND functional - so I decided to create little stickers that guests can peel off the STD and put on their calendars at home, work, etc.

To start, I printed little stickers with our monogram and wedding date on round labels:

Then, I embossed the front of the card:
I printed our message on the inside of the card and Sigird was awesome and left room for the stickers: Tessa and I used AWESOME double sided tape like this: We put the tape on the back of the row of stickers... ...and adhered them to each card. 164 STDs later....and we're done! Now all Trev and I need to do is sign each Christmas card. I'll do all of the addressing. :) YAY!!!

Sometimes, during this process....

2009-12-04T00:32:00.000-08:00

....all I wanna do is look at Trev and say:

FFFFOUND!

It's both exhausting and exhilarating planning a wedding. Everyone you encounter has an opinion. Everyone wants to put in their two cents. One thing I find myself thinking, while others are telling me what they did for their wedding, what they wish they had done, or what they plan to do when it's their big day... one thing I find myself thinking is:

Maybe we should have just gone on a fabulous
exotic vacation and gotten married someplace
where it's just us, God, and love.

But then I remember all of the cute projects I am working on and that thought instantly vaporizes.

Warning: Scheduling Posts!!!! :)

2009-12-03T12:39:00.000-08:00

I guess this is a good warning. I've worked up some posts.....they'll post daily!!! My goal is to work a head so that I keep up with my goal of writing more frequently.

Posts in the hopper:

Save the Dates!!!
Merry Monograms
The "+1" Worry...

Thanksgiving & Apple Cup

2009-12-03T10:43:00.000-08:00

I've been a bad girl. No posts over the long weekend... but I took photos of activities and projects because I knew that I would want to post! :) Thanksgiving was crazy busy for Trev and I. We woke up at 7am for the Turkey Bowl. Yes, ladies, that's right. A game of football on the morning after Seattle got TONS of rain...in a brand new sports field...that was basically all puddles.

While the boys played football: The wives, Little Grace, and I hung out on the sideline:

I was completely entertained on this rainy Thanksgiving morning though...because one of the wives brought her adorable son! Before he could talk, this little boy would sign for things....just like the kid in Meet the Parents/Fockers. Now he can talk, and he's as sweet as pie!

Even Little Grace loved him: ...and then they were done: After football, Trev and I drove across the valley to his parent's place. (His parents live up on that hill in the background of the photo - beautiful views!!!) I failed to take photos the rest of Thanksgiving day... But we managed to spend time with Trev's family and my family. I was exhausted by the end of the day.

The Saturday after Thanksgiving was the Apple Cup!!! A little history (thanks Wikipedia!):

The Apple Cup is the annual college football rivalry game between the two largest universities in the U.S. state of Washington; the University of Washington (UW) Huskies and the Washington State University (WSU) Cougars. It is traditionally the final game of the regular season and takes place on the Saturday preceding Thanksgiving at Husky Stadium in Seattle during odd years, and WSU's Martin Stadium in Pullman during even years.

I made all of Trev's favorite football food:

His 2009 Apple Cup menu consisted of:

Delicious tortilla chips and fresh pico de gallo
Pigs in a blanket (one of his faves, and a special request...)
Little smokes wrapped in bacon then dredged through brown sugar and baked...YUM!!!
Shrimp cocktail with cream cheese and crackers
Christmas cookie tray (it was on sale! I couldn't resist...)
Cheese, meat, and crackers
Hawaiian BBQ Chips

The man was happy. All the boys were happy. :) So, how did Apple Cup 2009 turn out? Well...just watch this and find out!

Trev and I ended Apple Cup 2009 with big smiles on our faces!!!

Mission: Pearls and Fragrance

2009-11-23T23:10:00.000-08:00

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This past Sunday my Mama and I went out on a mission.

Objectives:

Put together Christmas care package for my brother who is currently living and working in South Korea teaching English to elementary aged children. You can check out his blog here. He's a great writer and tells wonderful stories. He spent 2008-2009 in Germany as a Fulbright Scholar doing similar work. This time, however, he's getting paid.
Put together Christmas care package for my Oma (my Mom's Mother - my Grandmother) who lives in Germany. She's a sweet woman! So funny - definitely a clever sense of humor too. :)
Research pearls at all the stores in the mall. Who has the best deal? Who has the nicest pearls? Who has the nicest clasps? (The clasps were/are very important to me. I would like nice pearls with nice clasps on the necklace and bracelet...I would like these gifts to last!) Who might have sales on Black Friday? Who will discount for a large quantity purchase? (Is that even a reasonable question?) For those of you ladies who read the blog - yes...yes...you're getting beautiful jewelry for the wedding. Surprise! So don't go out and buy something fancy, because I've got you covered. AND - don't be feeling like I just screwed you out of a gift that had an element of "surprise!"....there will be surprise-esqe things coming your way closer to the wedding. :)
Go to Nordstrom and find the perfect fragrance for the wedding day. I know this might sound premature....but I was thinking that it could be a Christmas Gift. I'll update you on this shortly...

So we put together my brother's care package....FYI: I just typed out the entire contents of the care package just to realize that he often reads my blog so that he can "participate" in the wedding planning process even though he is on the other side of the world. We're best friends. I love him for showing interest in my girliest of girly times in my life - during the wedding planning process. (I've always been a "guy's girl"...)

Anyway. Russ? Check.

We put together Oma's package....

Now on to the pearls. Oh....you pearls. You're beautiful. I quickly learned two big things...

Lesson #1: Gold is worth a ton of money right now (DUH.) so any pearl necklaces/earrings/bracelets with gold clasps/posts will be more expensive than silver. Fabulous. Typical. Because guess what?!? I wanted gold. With the girls wearing dresses in the most fabulous of chocolaty brown fabrics - gold would be so warm and wonderful.

Lesson #2: Lesson number two? Always look at the clasp. I found a gorgeous set of real pearls at Macy's that were a very reasonable price - $100 before any discounts...they were 50% off and then an additional %15 off if you used a Macy's card. Great deal!!! I wanted to see what the pearls looked like against my skin, so I reached for the clasp. Oh....the clasp. It was a pain to use, it felt cheaper in quality, it was just...not what I wanted. Two cases over there were gorgeous pearl necklaces and bracelets, all priced well into the hundreds and some into the thousands of dollars. Those clasps....there is a noticeable difference that doesn't even need describing. If you don't see the difference in quality - there's no help for you. Beware. The spring ring clasp. Yes - there are some good ones like this out there. But look at this fancy schmancy one comin' up....

Gold Filigree Clasps. Some are simple. Some are decorative. I think they're a fun unique touch, a little vintage... and pretty. So there you go.

I came home and did some searching online. These were the top options that I found online, and I think I have made my decision.

10k Yellow Gold Cultured Pearl Earring and Pendant Set (7-7.5 mm) for $55 per set, so $330ish before taxes and S&H
14k Gold Freshwater Pearl 3-piece Set with Plush Box ( 6-6.50 mm/ 18 in/ 7 in) for $66 per set (this one comes with a beautiful box – a great gift!), so $396ish before taxes and S&H
14k Gold Cultured Pearl Necklace and Earring Set (Case of 3) for $173.99 – comes out to $58 per set, so $350ish before taxes and S&H
Honora Cultured Pearl Sterling 6mm Semi-Round Jewelry Set for $49.98, so $300ish before taxes and S&H
Honora Cultured Freshwater Pearl Three Piece Wardrobe Set for $54.90, so $330ish before taxes and S&H

My final lesson on my mission for the perfect pearls? Go to stores and see pearls in person. Figure out what you like and what you don't like. Learn the names of the colors. Touch and use the clasps. Then - go home and find a deal! (...and be sure to pay attention to the website's return policy and read customer reviews!) I'll post photos of the pearls when they arrive. :)

Finally - the search for the perfect bridal fragrance. My wedding planner friend, and day-of-coordinator, Erin Lindeman of Lindeman Weddngs and Events posted something about the fragrance that she wore on the day of her wedding in her Facebook status update the other day...

...and I haven't stopped thinking about it since. I would really like to find the perfect scent for our wedding day. Something special. Something that, when we're older, brings back the memories and sentiments of the day we were married.... This is what I told Tatiana, the wonderful woman in the fragrance department at Nordstrom. She had the most fabulous accent....and it was my description of the style (note: style not scent) I was looking for. After we discussed things, Tatiana guided me to the following scents:

...and then finally....

Quelques Fleurs Vaporisateur
Launched by the design house of Houbigant in 1912, QUELQUES FLEURS by Houbigant is classified as a flowery fragrance for women. This feminine scent posesses a blend of: many soft, sensual florals, the original, popular fragrance for women. It is recommended for evening wear. Houbigant de Paris was founded in France in 1775 and it is the only French Perfume maker with almost 230 years of historic artistry in perfume making.

Oh! So fancy! No really, in all seriousness - there was something about this scent. It's classic. It's light. When it touched my warm skin - it worked with my body temperature. It. Was. Perfect.

My Mama mentioned that this might be the perfect bridal shower gift. I smiled, said "Great idea!" and we just continued on our shopping trip...

I Do Dictionary

2009-11-19T10:26:00.000-08:00

I was explaining "bride-brain" to one of my coworkers this morning. He was dumbfounded. Here's how it went, all via email:

Coworker: "DIVA!!! [side note: that is my work nickname. yeah....] Make your picks! There's a Thursday game tonight!"
Me: "DOH!!!! I thought I made them already. I'll get right on it. Damn bride-brain."
Coworker: "Bride-Brain? Really?"
Me: "Yes, really. I have bride-brain. It’s not uncommon amongst young ladies planning weddings…"

Click on image to enlarge.
Image found HERE.

I googled bride brain and stumbled across this website with a list of terms for wedding-related things. Some of the terms were reasonable:

Bridezilla....we've all heard that one....
Manscaping...
Groomzilla...
Wedsites...

....and then there were some terms that I hadn't heard before, but I totally get:

Bridesmare - Rogue bridesmaids who are clearly there for the halo not the hard work. Soon after accepting the role of BM, they lose all resemblance to your childhood bestie, sister etc and become... the bridesmare! Commonly seen sighing and rolling their eyes at every request for help, rejecting every dress on the grounds of colour and/or style, and insisting on wearing higher, sparklier shoes than their fellow wedding party members.
RSVPeeved - Legitimate, panic-tinged feelings of annoyance at your friends and family's apparent inability to find a mailbox in order to RSVP in the appropriate manner to your wedding or engagement party invitation. And no, phoning or texting in the acceptance doesn't help...
Fudget - Your frequently tweaked big day budget which features some very creative accounting techniques (including rounding figures WAY down failing to replace the projected cost of an item with the actual spend). If necessary, the Fudget can be blamed on Bridal Brain and should be considered an entirely necessary planning tool in the prevention of panic-related pre-nuptial meltdowns.

I don't know. Just thinkin'.

Currently Loving: Sarcastic Cards

2009-11-17T15:59:00.001-08:00

I'm a big fan of writing cards, letters, love notes... I feel like it's a dying hobby and art, and I just can't let that happen!!! Especially when there are awesome cards out there like this:

Please click on images to enlarge, trust, it is well worth it!

Check out the card creative geniuses over at Neat Things on Etsy. I promise it'll make you smile.

UPDATE: Paloma's Nest Ringer Bearer Bowl

2009-11-16T00:35:00.000-08:00

Beginning of October I wrote about my love for the ever-so-popular Paloma's Nest Ring Bearer Bowl. I know - they're everywhere...AS THEY SHOULD BE. They're gorgeous. Here it is, our custom bowl with custom sappy lyrics (that totally suit us):

The pretty packaging: .....are you noticing a trend in my constant focus on cute packaging? What's up with that, man?! Maybe it has something to do with my career in marketing...

The custom bowl resting on a nest, complete with small heart-shaped "Thank You." How charming!!!
...and our sappy song lyrics:

SWEET LIKE CANDY
TO MY SOUL.
7.17.2010

Personal Photos

I am so pleased. What a beautiful keepsake.

It's all coming together.

2009-11-16T00:00:00.000-08:00

Remember when I talked about the fancy monograms my awesome coworker, Sigrid, created for Trev and I? I ordered a custom stamp, embosser, and return address labels using the artwork. Everything turned out exactly as I imagined it...I'm so happy!

I ordered the the custom stamp from Simon Stamps. I went with the custom 2" x 2" Traditional Wooden Handle Rubber Stamp. It feels sturdy and will come in handy later in tons of projects!

Personal Photo

One thing that I was super excited about was a custom embosser. This is something that can be used pratically forever and never go out of style. After a little research, I decided to go with Wilshire Graphic Press. I sent in the graphics and Amy over there at WGP had a proof over to me with in 24 hours. I ordered it at night and there was a proof sitting for me in my inbox the next morning. How satisfying!! (Sounds weird to say that, but you totally get what I am saying...right?!) After the proof was approved, the embosser was in my mailbox within a few days. Excellent.

Here's the lovely packaging:

Sorry for not wiping my dirty little fingerprints off before snapping this bad boy. What was I thinking?! Here's the embosser and sample card I made:

Personal Photos

I also caved and decided to print return address labels for our save the dates and Christmas cards. (I'm gathering all the bits and pieces for this....there will be an "assembly weekend" and a full post with pics.) We'll be sticking the save the dates in with this year's Christmas cards. To make the labels, I just went out to my local office supply store and got the Avery Clear Easy Peel Address Labels. I went with the 1" x 2 5/8" clear labels so that I could make the monogram image large enough so the date would be readable.

It was so painful spraying out our info!

Little Grace getting in on some action.

So there you have it. Three things that I wanted to get done...checked off the list. I'm super excited to get the rest of the pieces together so that we can start putting together the save the dates and invites!

I am so flippin honored. :)

2009-11-15T09:38:00.001-08:00

Miss Mojito is one of the coolest girls that I have had the pleasure of "meeting" since starting ...and what about Grace?

And look what she posted on her blog, With this Ring, I thee Blog. today! :)

Click here to see the full post.
(Note: we must be long lost sisters. I used the same font in my header.)

A full post featuring yours truly. Seriously Girl? Wow. Thank you so much. Wow. Mark this moment in time people - because I am officially at a loss for words. How cool is this feature!?!?!?

Miss Mojito authors one of the most kick-ass blogs online right now. She says:

Just another girl sharing her journey from maid to matron. I've learned so much from other girls on their wedding blogs I hope I can help another bride as well! So grab a mojito, sit back, and hear the tale of Miss Mojito's journey to being a Mrs.

You gotta love a girl that encourages drinking and blogging, I do the same. (Wine, anyone?) She's gorgeous, her h2b (hubby-to-be) is adorable, and I love her style. Just look at how cute these two are! (I think this photo was taken right after Mr. Mojito proposed....)

Miss Mojito's Personal Photo

Thank you so much for the special feature Miss Mojito. You inspire me.

Vino.

2009-11-14T17:23:00.000-08:00

I am going to go on a posting frenzy tomorrow morning. Write the 4+ posts that I promised myself I would complete this week.

Until then, enjoy this bottle of wine that I just picked up at the grocery store. Just lovely. I hope it is a good as it sounds. :)

Bitch, a provocatively named 100% Grenache from R Wines, achieves the potential of this difficult-to-grow grape. Winemakers Chris Ringland and Lisa Wetherell use fruit from the Barossa Valley in South Australia. Yields from the 25-year-old vines grown in sand over clay are modest, 3 to 5 tons an acre. Fleshy and round, with tons of jammy strawberry and raspberry fruit, this is neither shy nor light in the alcohol department, but it's so darn hard to bitch about the heat, when there is so much lip-smackingly good fruit!

Bitch (please...)

SUNDAY NIGHT 11.15.09 UPDATE: This wine was delicious. Light and delicious. Fruity. Tasty. Wonderful. I'm not a huge fan of red wine, I am just starting to explore and appreciate...and this was nice for me.

I melt.

2009-11-11T08:43:00.001-08:00

I guess being engaged and having a plethora of upcoming events (showers, parties, etc...) is the perfect excuse to start going on the hunt for UBER CUTE outfits.

Case in point: Amanda Archer's dresses in her Etsy shop.

Is this dress not one of the most wonderfully sweet things you've seen?

I am sure that if you were to go with the white, it could be dyed to another color later... maybe? Not sure.

All I know is that her dresses are divine.

ffffound

2009-11-09T23:57:00.000-08:00

FFFFOUND!

Mind-Change: Jewelry

2009-11-09T22:08:00.000-08:00

Trevor and I have been engaged since August 2008, which means I've been taking mental wedding planning notes since August 2007. :) I have not strayed far from my original concepts, but recently made one change.

Jewelry.

I have a very soft spot in my heart for Sorrelli Jewelry. Chandeliers for the ears. Gorgeous heirloom pieces. New with a vintage spin. They have TONS of options. Simple. Elaborate. Charming. Daunting. Statement pieces. Accent pieces. Probably just about anything and everything you could think of, in just about any color combination.

My thought was, I could get each of my girls a Sorrelli necklace and earrings. They'd all be the same style, just different colors to compliment their shoe color or their individual personality. Just a little special touch. Like this: And that I could wear something a little more true to bridal form, but still on the funky side: Sorrelli

...And then we started working and reworking and revising the living, breathing, walking, talking document I like to call my nemesis...and WE like to call the BUDGET. The more and more I think about it, the more I think I would appreciate a piece of jewelry that I can wear after the wedding. As gorgeous and amazing as the Sorrelli piece is, I won't be able to wear it to work or to a girls night dinner. That Sorrelli piece is something for special occasions. Period.

Which brings me to my decision...the all time, Audrey Hepburn classic: Pearls. They never go out of style. They're always appropriate. Each and every girl in the world should have a set of real, simple, classic pearls. It's the perfect gift.

Pearls Only

I am pretty pumped about the pearls. My mother has a beautiful set of pearls that she was given when she was young, probably around my age. Last year she brought them to a local jeweler who restrung them, taking the time to tie a small knot in between each perfect little natural freshwater pearl.

So...the jewelry and the dress have been the two areas so far that I've strayed from my original concept. (But........they both still have a very vintage feel.)

Are there any areas in your planning where you've changed your mind time and time again?

Peanut Petunia, You're a Sweetheart!

2009-11-09T10:51:00.000-08:00

Peanut Petunia is pretty much awesome. (I think I've said this before...) And now she's a little more awesome in my book (is that even possible?) because she's given me "The Fabulous Sugar Doll Blogger Award."

So the deal is, I tell you 10 interesting things about myself and pass the award on to 10 other bloggers.

At work we pass around an "Action Figure Jesus", complete with packaging. (click here to see...he comes complete with "poseable arms and gliding action!") If it's your birthday, you get Jesus. I've had Jesus for a few weeks since my birthday was last month. Ever since I've had Jesus in my life, good things have been happening. I get to give Jesus to my cube-mate next week because it's HIS birthday. Thank goodness we have a double wide cubicle, because that means I still kinda have Jesus.
I don't like to use the restroom on the same floor that my co-workers use the restroom. I go down a floor. What? I'm weird like that. Shh!
I had the best sandwich of my life at a hole in the wall this past Saturday in Tacoma called Magical Sandwich Makers. It was truly magical.
I've decided that I love having an old-school planner. I've had too many issues with technology. Don't get me wrong, I loooooooovvvveeee my Outlook Calendar, but it's always nice having stuff on paper. I recently purchased this awesome planner from "My Lavender Cottage" and I love it.
I am a sucker for Choral Christmas Music and a Capella ANYTHING.
I have a bobble-head Ingemar IKEA dude on my desk at work.
Embarrassing fact: when I am driving home with my iPod on shuffle and a sappy love song comes on...I imagine what part of our wedding the song would be appropriate for. I usually end up tearing up. I am a sucker.
I found my last roommate on Craigslist. She's now one of my best friends and she's in our bridal party! Her amazing husband is super close with my fiance...and their little baby will be our ring bearer! He took his first steps last week!!!
I like the way my hair smells. It must be my shampoo.
I have a little container on my desk with Zipfizz. It used to be full. Someone has been stealing my Zipfizz. Not cool.

...and the award goes to....

With this ring, I thee blog.
A Girl in Pearls & A Boy with Toys
Le Love
One Month Off
Sarah Rhoads Photographers
...etc
She walks in beauty
Primadonna Bride
yes, please.
Diagnosis Deferred
:)

p.s. Peanut Petunia has an awesome contest right now. Click here and enter to win a galvanized key cabinet from Pottery Barn.

I am horrible.

2009-11-09T10:16:00.000-08:00

Yup. I am horrible. I haven't been posting. I've been around....stalking blogs in my reader. But, I've been bad. Even Trevor asked me, "What about Grace? Why haven't you been hiding out in the wedding-room working on your blog thingy and wedding stuff?"

I have plenty of reasons... life, work, wedding projects, family outings, dinners, happy hours, cleaning, laundry, blah, blah, blah. But, I should really make time for this blog. I love writing and I love swapping ideas.

So here I am. I am making a commitment. Let's see if I can do one post per day, Monday through Friday, for the rest of the year. It'll be a challenge, what with the holidays approaching so quickly and everything... but I'm up for it. (This post doesn't count.) This means I'll be writing about 40 new posts before the year is over.

Quick updates on things:

Officially booked our caterer, Smoke a Fat One BBQ. They just got back from the Jack Daniels BBQ competition in Tennessee. If you know BBQ, you know that even going to the Jack Daniels competition is a HUGE accomplishment. Out of 80 international teams, Smoke a Fat One earned 11th place. Their brisket won 5th place overall. Our guests will be craving this BBQ for YEARS after the wedding.
Met with Erin and Kristi (old High School girls!) of Lindeman Weddings and Events to talk WEDDING!!! So much fun. I love these girls, and I am so excited to be working with them over the next (GASP!) 8 months! We talked linens, life, flowers, work, details, men... I think we sat and talked over two hours. Yes - we weaved in and out of wedding talk, but that's okay. So in love with these girls!
Trevor and I finalized our guest list and budget. It was a daunting task, and I am sure there will still be revisions. But this is the closest I have ever felt to it being "done."
I am falling in love with Super 8mm Film. I hope that my dad (who works in the videography biz) has friends that work with this awesome medium! My heart melts every time I see a video featured in a blog...

So...that's it for this morning. I will post something else by end of the day. Because I made a promise. :)

::gushing::

2009-10-16T09:02:00.000-07:00

Ohhhh....Happy Friday! While I might be suffering from a lack of sleep due to my horrible cough, there's a little something that made me smile today. The Paloma's Nest custom ring bearer bowl that I ordered a couple of weeks ago has been finished and is in the mail. I have a tracking number and everything. I am so excited.

Also, last night I also ordered our custom hand held embosser and stamp with this image on each of them:

It's our basic monogram that my awesome co-worker and dear friend, Sigrid, created for me as part of my wedding gift. She's so kind. (I love you Sigrid!!! I really do!) If you would like to have a monogram of your own, check out Sigrid's & Holly Williams' company: Marry Monograms. They've also extended their company to make baby monograms and other special occasion monograms. Genius, if you ask me.

Check out these other versions of the monogram that I will be using to create stickers and other things for the big day:

I also received the shipping information for our custom stamp this morning. I'm super excited because we ordered the stamp and embosser without the wedding date so that we can continue to use them after we're married!

Ahhhh....happy day. :)

Current Obsession: Hangers.....Really?!?

2009-10-14T21:16:00.000-07:00

I know. Hangers. What am I thinking?! Maybe it's because of photos like these:

Dress: Margot by Michelle Roth
Bride: snmcdowell on Wedding Bee

Dress: Pronovias
Bride: Mrs. Petunia on Wedding Bee

Dress: Oleg Cassini

Just look at the gorgeous dresses...on hangers. You always look at the hanger. Well... I know I always look at the hanger.

Is it padded? Is it made of wood? Is it customized in some way? Is it one of those department store style hangers?

Maybe I'm crazy.

I don't know.

But....I know that there are other women out there that feel the same way that I do about the hanger.

Just look at these: Here's the photo "HOW TO":

Source: Unknown.
Please help! I saved these on my computer eons ago.

*click to enlarge - it's worth it*
April Foster Events

Bride: MrsGG on Project Wedding
Photographer: Jonilyn Photography

Hangers.

Another item.......added to the list.

Speechless

2009-10-12T18:41:00.001-07:00

family portrait - triciamary via jpgmag

One of the most beautiful images...

...I have..

...ev....e.....r.....

seen.

Catching up....

2009-10-12T09:11:00.000-07:00

.....THIS:
....is how I spent Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I am bummed that's how I had to spend my time. But it was necessary to get better.

One positive thing about being sick in bed for four days? I made an awesome list of all of the blog posts I'd like to do. :)

Reception: Tables

2009-10-06T17:16:00.001-07:00

I've been seeing a ton of beautiful weddings with long, rectangular tables with family-style seating lately. And.... I am in love. I emailed Judy Craven at our venue, Craven Farm, to see which table style would make the best use of the space. I hope they say "rectangular." That would make my heart pitter-patter.

Just look at these:

Weddingbee

Memorable Wedding Ideas

The Knot

Veranda

Source: Unknown...help!

That is all.

Thank you.

Melting: Paloma's Nest Ringer Bearer Bowl

2009-10-04T11:35:00.000-07:00

This morning I finally broke and ordered the Paloma's Nest custom ring bearer bowl that I have been eying for months. I am in love. It's simple. It's perfect.

We ordered the most simple of all of the different options available at Paloma's Nest on Etsy.

We decided to go for the basic custom bowl. It will read:

SWEET LIKE CANDY
TO MY SOUL.
7.17.2010

Lyrics from our song by Dave Matthews Band. Super excited.

Also: Went with Jodi and Lynnae to pick out their bridesmaid dresses. They both went with dresses from my last post! They'll all look so darn darling. I love my girls!!!

Vintage 1920s French Veiling What?!??

2009-10-03T18:26:00.000-07:00

Today Tessa, Holly, and I went to look at bridesmaid dresses. We had already found their dresses, but wanted to make sure that they had them at the shop where everyone will be ordering their dresses. (Since we're doing different dresses, but same fabric, they need to come from the same dye lot or they'll look "off...") Sure enough, they had the dresses. Measured. Done. Deal.

Holly is wearing above dress just how looks in the photo. Tessa is having the dress altered to be strapless. Both versions are absolutely darling and they'll both look and feel gorgeous. Mission accomplished.

I thought this type of style would look amazing...

This is kinda cute....

This is absolutely adorable...

I bet Lucy would look AWESOME in this.

Another cute one. So many choices!!!

Dresses: All Bill Levkoff

Holly had a special dinner date (introducing the new boyfriend to the parents!!!) so she had to go... Tessa and I decided to go on the hunt for vintage veiling to make a birdcage veil.

And then we found it. A shop with vintage veiling. I just about died.

Vintage 1920s French Veiling......What?!?? I found the most amazing veiling to make my birdcage veil.

I am a happy girl today.

UWB Classmate Married: Katie

2009-09-30T23:14:00.000-07:00

You know those people that you were friends with in High School or College that you've lost touch with? You don't talk anymore, but if you were to see them you'd say hi and genuinely smile. I was reading through my Google Reader today and stumbled across a recent wedding post by the wonderful Sarah Rhoads Photo. (Side note: I'm addicted to following photographers - they always catch such great wedding details and are so inspiring!) The bride was a fellow University of Washington - Bothell Business Administration major classmate, the beautiful Katie. We worked on several projects together in college - she's absolutely gorgeous, inside and out. Genuine, friendly, and intelligent.

If I didn't know this girl, I would swear this was a fashion shoot for some fabulous bridal fashion magazine feature. STUNNING.

Congratulations Katie & Dennis! The joy and love in your smiles...it's so heartwarming. You radiate pure happiness.

Photographer: Sarah Rhoads

Ceremony: Holy Names Academy

Reception: Broadmoor Country Club

Florist: Contemporary Floral

DJ: Brian Waltz

I love me SOMEECARDS... and so do you.

2009-09-29T10:43:00.000-07:00

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Mama's gotta look fabulous too!

2009-09-27T16:23:00.000-07:00

My mom and I have been emailing ideas back and forth for her wedding-day attire ever since last Sunday when we decided on the wedding dress. We spent some time today "out on the field" checking out some of the bridal boutiques that carry Mother of the Bride dresses. To be completely honest - not a huge fan of any of them. They just look so stuffy and they age my mama too much! She's a gorgeous woman, and a young one at that. She deserves to look stunning and I want her to feel amazing.

I'm really trying to avoid black at the wedding... I'll be wearing an ivory/antique white gown, the girls will be wearing chocolate brown dresses, and [at this point] I am leaning towards either dark brown suits or sandy colored suits for the men. I'm also trying to make sure that everything is venue/theme appropriate. It's not a "black tie" wedding, it's going to be very casual. I want people to feel like they can kick off their shoes and have a good time! It's hard finding a good balance with dresses...

Here are a few of the dresses we're currently liking:

This dress will compliment my wedding gown nicely - especially with the layered/tiered look...
I am in love with this dress, but I don't think I can convince my mama to wear this color. How gorgeous and soft is this dress?!?! She would look drop-dead-gorgeous...

I like the two-toned look of this dress...

Above Dresses: Nordstrom - "Mother of the Bride" section online

Above Dresses: Nordstrom - "Evening Gowns" section online

....and now I am daydreaming...My mother would look stunning in this Badgley Mischka Beaded Caftan. One shoulder! Green! I die. Gorgeous. Too bad it's almost $1,000.
Or how about this fabulous Carmen Marc Vavlo jeweled waist chiffon gown. I am melting as I write this....
This ABS by Allen Schwartz one-shoulder silk gown is quite stunning...
We have some time, but isn't it fun to look!?!? :)

Inspired - Beautiful Wedding

2009-09-25T16:05:00.000-07:00

Remember the photo guestbook idea I posted here? 100 Layer Cake featured a wedding on Monday that made me smile. I love chalkboards. This is a new thing for me. (Trust: a "current obsession: chalkboards" post is in the works...) This needs to happen:
A chalkboard quote bubble!!! I die. How darling! I can see this being tons of fun, especially with our eclectic group of friends and family.

This couple is amazing. They created everything for their wedding on their own. All DIY. If I had the time, I would do this. She made her dress, veil, invites, decor, bridesmaid dresses...everything. How amazing is that? I am also loving the bunting flags lining the aisle.
Look at her cute 50's inspired tea-length dress. I'm melting - it's so adorable!!! I feel like this bride found my wedding planning binder and ran with it... Maybe we're long-lost sisters? They even did the moustaches!!!
I'll be making mine....per my previous post. I am just in love with the charm that surrounds this wedding. So much love. Check out the wedding here. Check out the bride's site here.

They made their cupcake stands. They MADE their cupcake stands!!! I am so doing this. The couple used beautiful candle sticks and platters...painted white. Just beautiful! SO INSPIRING!
You MUST check out 100 Layer Cake's, Lisa Welge's, and Sarah Maren's sites. Absolutely breathtaking. Click here to see the slideshow that Sarah Maren put together. It's worth a few minutes.

Bouquet Handle Treatments

2009-09-25T15:44:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart featured Bouquet Handle Treatments in today's wedding idea e-blast. I have been thinking about this lately...wanting to find one of my Grandma Arlene's old handkerchiefs to fasten around my bouquet. Here's what I was thinking:

Ahhhh....Martha. So pretty. So simple.

Inspired - Love......Finding Furniture.

2009-09-23T19:30:00.000-07:00

Trevor and I have been doing lots of brainstorming for the wedding lately. I am loving it, because I love Trevor's ideas. When he gets excited about particular details, I smile. He's just wonderful. With that, Trevor and I have been brainstorming ideas for our e-session with the lovely Kristen Honeycutt....

Source: Final Download

"Do you want to go to a park?"

"No."
"We could do Pike Place and...or....other noteworthy Seattle Spots since we have so many friends and family from out of town..."
"Nah...then we'd have to deal with parking and people..."
"HEY!!! What about going to the Puyallup [Fair]. Those pictures would be fun!"
"NOOOO..."

(Side Note: Trevor worked the Walla Walla Onion Ring and Burger Stand at the Evergreen State Fair for a few years. He knew the carnies and worked with the carnies...and let's just be kind and say that he refuses to go on any fair/carnival rides. I, on the other hand, go on the rides and let my knowledge of the carnies and their behavior bump up the thrill-factor!)

"What about that walk we take Little Grace on?"
"What about Grace?" ::smiles::
"OHHHHHH!!!! I've got an awesome idea. So, I posted a series of pictures in my blog yesterday where a couple went out and found some old, funky, interesting, statement pieces of vintage furniture from Value Village or Craigslist. They put the furniture out in the middle of a field and took
pictures...it was awesome."
"Yeah - that sounds tight."

........and another decision was made. Or, at least, we have an idea to share with Kristen. I wonder what she'll think? We can make a picnic, sit outside, play with little grace...and arrange and re-arrange our funky furniture in the middle of a field. I am loving this furniture idea. Hmmm... I'm stoked because Trevor wants to hit up some of the local Value Villages to find a fun suit for a wedding that we're going to on Saturday. This means I can hunt for cake stands, funky jars, silver pieces for my succulents, Blue Ball Mason Jars, and funky retro furniture with fun lines. Current Inspiration:

Jeremy Lawson Photography

snippet & ink

Current finds:

Found: On Craigslist
Status: Available, setting up meeting.

Found: On Craigslist
Status: Pending

Found: On Craigslist
Status: Contemplating
(Too expensive, need to negotiate.)

*Imagine with a different shade...*
Found: On Craigslist
Status: Contemplating

Found: On Craigslist
Status: Contemplating

LIGHTBULB!!! I bet I could find some awesome stuff thrifting.....

Just so you know....

2009-09-23T00:29:00.000-07:00

Earlier this summer, Kiss The Groom & Green Wedding Shoes both featured a two totally different weddings with the same fun photo guestbook idea.

THIS:

AND POSSIBLY EVEN THIS:

Is totally happening at our wedding... With some "alterations." We'd like to do a fun photo booth and post all of the pictures on a photo sharing website so guests have a fun picture for their memory collection. Click here to see my inspiration. I love this idea. I will change the design of the backdrop wall though. I'm thinking more antiqued white. White chair rail with white beaded wood underneath with a fun teal paint or vintage wallpaper. Then all of the frames will be "shabby-chic", painted white and distressed. Inside the frames, we would like to honor our families by showcasing black and white prints of wedding photos. So, I will be on the hunt for old family wedding photos...that should be a fun project! (Family - If you are reading this, please feel free to email me any family wedding photos! evamwacker@gmail.com!) The large frames will be ornate and painted white as well.

This is a great project for the h2b. (aka Hubby to Be.) We can spend a day on a weekend building, painting, and decorating! Well, I know that we can do the building and painting part together, not too sure if I can keep his attention for the decorating part. Unless, of course, if the decor theme was NASCAR, Seahawks, or golf oriented.

What kinds of projects are you and your significant other working on together?

I'm pooped. Coming tomorrow:

2009-09-22T23:13:00.000-07:00

I am pooped. I thought I could slam out seven posts tonight...I really thought I could. But, my back aches and I still need to tidy up the apartment because they're doing "Unit by Unit Inspections" tomorrow. (Whatever that means...)

Coming tomorrow:

Vintage Furniture Inspiration & Finds
Photography Inspiration
Daily Theme Announcement

Have a wonderful night, my lovelies!

Darling Seating Area

2009-09-22T22:45:00.000-07:00

One thing that is really important to Trevor and I is to create little pods of seating areas at the wedding reception. We want to create an environment that is friendly to conversation. An open, inviting, party layout. Not too long ago I clipped a fabulous photo of a wine barrel and hay seating area out of some random wedding magazine. The event planner used halved wine barrels and put beveled edge clear glass to create a top. Next they put little mason jars on the table with small floral arrangements. Guests sat on bails of hay that had cushy padding on top with a huge piece of canvas affixed with a strip of leather.

It was simple, charming, inviting - and practically begging for a few people to sit down and chat over a glass of wine. Exactly what we're looking for. Maybe one of these days I'll scan the original inspiration photo...until then you'll have to close your eyes and imagine....

My Mom and I bought three wine barrels at McLendon Hardware over Memorial Day Weekend. They were on clearance - a total steal. (Around $20 a pop.) I figure we can use these babies as planters after the wedding. Since Memorial Day Weekend, I've been on the prowl for bevleed edge glass on Craigslist, but haven't been successful. Then I realized - IKEA probably has something I could use for this project. I found the perfect sized mirrors at IKEA for $19 each. I think that's a fair price.

The IKEA mirrors are gorgeous, but they look too shiny and new for the farm. I found a product called "Antique Mirror Patina Solution" online. This stuff is suppsed to simulate the look of tarnish and distress from an old, antique mirror on a new mirror. The process seems pretty darn complex, I sense this will be a day-long project with a girlfriend or two over a bottle of wine or 6-pack of Hef. This stuff seems a little spendy, so I am going to go to Home Depot to see if there's some other sort of chemical I can rub these babies down with that will help me achieve a similar affect.

There are a few different methods for antiquing the mirrors:

Pour: This is a very spotty look.
Spray: A more subtle, overall antiquing.
Wipe (my personal fave!): Looks just plain old, old. Perfection!

You can But look at how gorgeous this new mirror looks after the "Antique Mirror Patina Solution" wipe-treatment!!!

I plan on purchasing about 6-7 bails of hay to create seats. We'll create a full bench out of four bails for one side of the wine barrel tables (against the wall) and then we'll put three bails in front of the tables. Here's an idea of how the hay will look with padding, canvas, and leather ties.

W. Scott Chester Photography

Who knows? Our little seating area might just be a huge hit!

Are you adding any fun details to your wedding that are a little ouside the norm?

Fabulous Finds

2009-09-22T21:13:00.000-07:00

Late last week I had an itch. I wanted to go thrifting so badly. Over the past year, I have been adding items to a thrifting list. We're paying for our wedding (with gifts of items/money here and there) all by ourselves. I am an extroverted, creative, crafty gal and the thought of challenging myself to plan a wedding ceremony and throw a fabulously designed reception on a tight budget was intriguing. So - back to what I was saying...Late last week I had an itch. I wanted to go thrifting so badly. I've been adding items to a thrifting list for quite some time and, gosh darn it, I was gonna go hit up the thrift stores. It was a weeknight after work, about 7:15ish and the thrift stores close at 9:00pm. I got this. I can do it.

Check out these awesome finds!!! 
some vintage candy dishes (?) for the candy buffet at the wedding. You got it people - we're doing the ever-so trendy candy buffet. It's genius. It's another opportunity to tie in your color and design scheme. Better yet: it's an opportunity to entertain children and adults. People love candy. It's a people pleaser. My Maid of Honor Holly always has a supply of delicious treats in her purse. I have started this habit as well. I have never met a person that doesn't enjoy a sweet treat every once in a while. So, we're having a candy buffet. Found these three beauties at my local Value Village. These will blend in nicely with my collection of fun candy dishes and apothecary jars that we've been working on this past year. Here's our inspiration for the candy buffet:  

Big Wedding, Tiny Budget.

Lisa's Candy Buffets

Modern Bride with a Budget

I was so inspired by a photo that I included in a previous post about succulents, that I decided it would be a charming touch as part of our creative flower/cake stands with cupcakes centerpieces. Here's that photo to help jog your memory:

ToastAndTables

Every time I go thrifting, there's usually a plethera of these little silver goblets, jars, sugar bowls, creamer thingies, and other fancy containers. Here's my little find from the thrift store...

I figure I can pick up four or five of these babies each time I go thrifiting. Maybe even throw a sliver platter or larger containers in there. Mix it up a little. I would like everything to be very unique. By the time the wedding rolls around, I can plop some dirt in them, stick in a succulent and some river rocks (for flavor) and add them to the tables as part of the centerpieces. I am now seriously considering scratching market flowers at the tables for the cake stands and collections (5-7) of these little charming containers with deliciously wonderful looking succulents. Thoughts? I mean...look at how absolutely darling and charming these centerpieces can be!!!! (...if done right.)

Yes, Please.

The Knot

Hmmm...what else did I find? Ohhh! That's right! I found this fabulous beaded purse.for $2.99! I am still amazed at the price. It feels and looks like it was made very well. Nice quality. I did some research. It's a Walborg handbag, vintage. Very very nice quality with a cute little wristlet chain that I can tuck inside the purse should I not want to use it. These babies are going for upwards of $100 depending on the year and quality. SCORE!!! It's an antique gold and will make a charming accessory with my uber-fabulous wedding gown.

I also found an old lacquered handmade wll clock. I took it out to show Trevor and he thought it was cheesy and perfect for his future "MAN CAVE." I then went on to explain that my Grandfather used to invest in wonderful full logs of wood to make these fabulous clocks. They took time and they are absolutely gorges. My parent's have one of my Grandfathers' clocks hanging in their entry way. It's enormous and makes quite the statement. When I saw this little version - I knew I had to have it. It will be great in Trevor's future "Man Cave" and it will always melt my heart just a little when I look at it. :)

I am so excited about last week's finds. I wonder what this week will bring? Have you found anything awesome at the thrift store lately?

Another reason I love my peanut.

2009-09-22T19:20:00.000-07:00

Ohhh....my wonderful little Peanut Petunia. The one who I can blame for inviting me into the ever-so addicting world of blogging. Why is Mrs. Peanut so wonderful, you ask? Well, not only is she absolutely fabulous...she also has killer style, she's funny, she's honest...and to top it off: She's presented me with an award!

The Honest Scrap Award Guidelines

1.) Say thanks and give a link to the presenter of the award.
2.) Share "10 Honest Things" about myself.
3.) Present this award to 7 others whose blogs I find brilliant in content and/or design, or those who have encouraged me.
4.) Tell those 7 people they've been awarded HONEST SCRAP and inform them of these guidelines in receiving.

1. Mason aka Susan aka Peanut Petunia is awesome. Not only can I thank her for this award, I can also thank her for introducing me to the world of blogging. It started with sending me wedding ideas, which turned into sending me links to entire blogs that are awesome, which parlayed into her starting Peanut Petunia. She got me hooked. She's a creative genius. She's blunt. She's funny. She's adorable. She's awesome. Peanut Petunia - I salute you. :)

2. Oh geez...ten honest things about little ol' me?!?

ONE: I have no middle name. My first name is hyphenated, which confuses people.
TWO: I used to collect fortune cookie fortunes. I used them for an art project.
THREE: I can't wait to have babies. Trevor will be an amazing Daddy.
FOUR: I might be slightly addicted to Dill Pickle flavored sunflower seeds.
FIVE: I want to own my own business one day.
SIX: I could live life without a cell phone. I did it for 6 mos. this year and it rocked.
SEVEN: I was in an A Capella jazz group and that show Glee makes me miss choir.
EIGHT: I love photography. I dream of owning a fabulous camera.
NINE: I love to make lists. I love post its. I love calendars. OCD, perhaps?
TEN: Dave Matthews is at the tip-top of my laminate list. Those eyebrows... ahhhh.

3. I would like to present this award to the following fabulous people/blogs:

ONE: SWOONOVERIT - Absolutely fabulous.
TWO: East Side Bride - Indie wedding planning? Yes, please.
THREE: Unruly Things - Genius. Lovely. Creative.
FOUR: The Relentless Bride - Personal. Fun.
FIVE: Snippet & Ink - Inspirational.
SIX: One Month Off - A friend's journey in life for a month. He's fantastic.
SEVEN: Jeremy Lawson Photography Blog - Love. Love. Love.

4. Informing people....after I craft this blog post.

So there you have it. I am so tickled pink about this! :) Thank you! Thank you, everyone!

The one thing that I can't stop thinking about....

2009-09-22T18:42:00.000-07:00

...is the dress. We found it. THE dress. The dress that I will be rocking the day I marry my very best friend. The dress. It's happened. And it's wonderful. I have promised to post photos of the dress, but I will not post photos of yours truly in the dress. I need to leave SOME element of surprise for the big day!

Trevor, my love, once again... If you are snooping around, I would highly recommend that you end your journey here. :)

Oh - this dress. It kills me. I might die. Okay, I die. It's gorgeous. It's nothing like I originally imagined, it's better.

My Mother, Matron of Honor (Tessa), Maid of Honor (Holly), and I went dress shopping two weeks ago. We weren't planning on buying anything, we just wanted to see what looked good. Well, Tessa found a dress... It was sitting on a rack sandwitched between HER wedding gowns and one of my other Bridesmaids' wedding gowns. (Meant to be?)

I was "daydreamy" about it since we left the boutique two weeks ago. I kept thinking that it was the one. I did some searching online and found it at another boutique in Seattle. In order to make sure that all the women in the wedding had an opportunity to be a part of the shopping, I set up another appointment for this past weekend. I figure we'd try a bunch of new dresses and slip the dress I found a couple of weeks ago into the mix. (I mean, how many opportunities in my life will I have to try on gorgeous wedding gowns. Just this once.) This time I was joined by my mother, Tessa, Holly, Lynnae (Bridesmaid), Baby Aedan (Lynnae's little ladies man and our ring bearer), and Donna (Future Mother in Law - who I LOVE TO DEATH!!!).

I tried on dress after dress. Finally, it was time for the one my heart was already sold on. I stepped out of the dressing room and it was like everything slowed down for just a moment... Everyone knew: THIS was the dress. THE dress. Donna, my future Mother In-Law summed it up nicely by saying that she didn't think that I needed to try on any other dresses. This was the one.

I must warn you, the photos do not do the dress justice. We're adding a satin ribbon around the waist - it changes the look completely. We're also considering some severe alterations to bring it back to that 50's look I keep drooling over. :)

Click on the hemline photo for a close up....that hemline put this dress over the top.

Couple the dress with a birdcage veil for the ceremony and a flower for the reception? I think so.

Designer = Pronovias
Style No. = Rebecca

So, there she is. Isn't she lovely? I can't wait to post pictures next July (after the wedding) of me rocking that baby.

Post-wedding plans for the dress? I would love to have it re-purposed and made into a quilt for our first born.

Do you have any plans for your wedding dress after your wedding day? Will you preserve it? Will you sell it? Will you re-purpose it? Do tell.

Sneak Peak: The Dress

2009-09-22T16:59:00.000-07:00

Doesn't this hemline just melt your little heart?

It melts mine.

Check back tonight for the full story and photos.

Tonight...

2009-09-22T16:06:00.000-07:00

Tonight will be a post-crazy night for me...

Here's what you have to look forward to:

Wedding Dress Update! We found THE dress!!!
Wonderful Thrift Store Finds
Wine Barrel & Hay Seating Area (Wedding Decor Idea)
Vintage Furniture Inspiration & Finds
Photography Inspiration
Another Award? What?!?
Daily Theme Announcement

I have fallen hard for blogging. What can I say? ;)

A wedding event where you can be a giver....

2009-09-15T22:30:00.001-07:00

Working in radio is fun. It's challenging, but it's tons of fun. I have the privilege of working with a wonderfully entertaining combination of different personality types. Another really awesome benefit of working in radio is that I am meeting new people everyday...and I have the benefit of learning about really cool events going on in the Seattle-Tacoma Market.

One event that I have been lucky enough to learn about - and meet with the creators - has been Get Hitched, Give Hope. From their [gorgeously designed] website:

It seems like all good ideas are hatched over a bottle of wine. In late 2007 at a monthly networking event, a lightbulb materialized above our heads- "Wouldn't it be great if we could make an event that would bring members of the local wedding industry together AND raise money for a great cause?" A novel idea, there was nothing like it in our area. Over the next couple of months, Get Hitched, Give Hope was born. To put it plainly:
Get Hitched, Give Hope is a 501(c)3 organization that raises money for a carefully chosen charity
We throw a yearly event where brides can shop for wedding services and products
We spread the word year round, fundraising for our organization and building awareness for the cause we believe in
We unify our local Seattle wedding industry by giving business owners an opportunity to give charitably
We maximize our net proceeds for our chosen charity by working on a 100% volunteer basis. Every event item and service and every hour of behind the scenes busy work is donated by generous members of our community and organization.
1 in 8 women will develop invasive breast cancer and 1 in 100 breast cancer cases are in men. Over 40,000 men and women will lose their lives to breast cancer this year in America alone; that's 40,000 wishes that we can help to grant. Let's do it.
This year, our goal is to raise $50,000 to grant wishes for stage IV breast cancer patients and their families. It can take $4000 to grant one wish for a small family of 4, let's grant 12!!

We raised an incredible $30,000 at our first event, here is what we we were able to do with your donations:

Susan and her family of 8 were able to have one last family vacation in Hawaii
Heather and her family of 6 were able to see Mickey Mouse at Disney World
Sharon's wish was for her family of 4 to go to Hawaii
Together with Brides Against Breast Cancer and The Making Memories Foundation, we granted Lisa's last wish of having her dream wedding in Port Orchard
We sent Susan and her son to Key West for one final good-bye.

Please join us to toast to this wonderful cause that celebrates life and love and the fabulous spirit of giving! It’s an evening not to be missed, where the most stylish way to give is to get!

This year's Get Hitched, Give Hope event will take place on Thursday, October 29th at Arctic Club Hotel in downtown Seattle. MOViN 92.5's very own Ladies Room with Brooke and Monti will be emceeing the evening's auction events. More from the event website:

We've decided to throw a really big, swanky-cool party; the kind that gives you an excuse to buy new shoes. We'll have lovely libations and amazing appetizers, live and silent auctions and lots of raffles.
You will truly be able to get gorgeous goods for your wedding by giving back.

Seattle's top wedding professionals have been personally invited to exhibit their services and products with one catch-- they must donate a fantastic item for our silent auction. Together with items donated by Seattle's top businesses, we will raise money for a great cause through silent auctions, raffles, and a final, show-stopping live auction. The items up for grabs are not just limited to pre-wedding prep, day-of services, and newlyweds, there are sure to be some great goods for moms, dads, grooms, and friends!
...You'll totally find time in your social calendar for this.

All photos and quotes are from the official Get Hitched, Give Hope website - used under creative commons. Here's to a most successful event this fall!

Who is this "Grace" Character?

2009-09-15T09:38:00.001-07:00

Grace. Grace Anne Rieb. Our dog. Our practice-baby. Our Jack Russell Terrorist. (Uhhh....Terrier. Whoops.) Call her what you like. She's absolutely adorable. Her name suits her - she's gentle, graceful... lovely. She's a cuddler. She loves her Mommy and Daddy. She loves to go on walks. She loves to chase flies. (It's HIGH-larious.)

Here is our little Grace when we first set up her home:
Little Grace learned to swim this summer. She loves it!
Little Grace is a Daddy's Girl:
But she loves her Mama too...
Little Grace has a boyfriend named Buster. Buster is my brother, Niko's, Jack Russell:
Little Grace loves her Uncle Russ! Check out his blog here:
Little Grace especially loves being outside:
Trevor randomly always asks me... "And what about Grace?" If we're going grocery shopping, he asks about Grace. If we're going the movies, he asks about Grace. If I am asking him to take out the garbage, he asks about Grace.

So, there you have it.

Do you have any special things like this with your significant other? Any funny quips that only the two of you really understand?

Inspired - Love.

2009-09-14T22:01:00.000-07:00

I am in love with this e-photo set-up. Featured on snippet & ink over Labor Day Weekend. (What? I got a little behind on my reading...) What kills me? The furniture. The setting. How perfect it is.

Photos taken by: Van Tran and Brad Webber from Single Frame Cinema

Are you doing anything unique for your e-photo session?

Steve. Dave. Shirts.

2009-09-14T21:38:00.000-07:00

I am going to take a brief pause from my regular blog topics to pimp out a friend's absolutely genius business idea. I believe it it and I know it'll take off - especially in college towns.

Steve. Dave. Shirts.

Don't get it? Good. There's nothing to get. They are very bright t-shirts that don't have your name on them.

Dave. shirts are hot pink.

Steve. shirts are bright green.

(Please note that the shirts are actually much brighter than the displayed picture.)

Both are selling for $11.50. One dollar from every sale will benefit charity. The charity will change with time, and currently, we hope to help an at-risk youth mentoring organization that services Boulder County. They have asked to remain anonymous because our website has pictures of people with no pants on.

The only rule is you cannot order your own name.

Current sizes available S, M, L, XL. Women's fit shirts will also be available soon. If you would like to place an order, please visit www.stevedaveshirts.com.

Plus, their disclaimer kills me!

Okay. Let's get real here for a second. Don't sue us. Whatever somebody filmed you doing in a steve. or dave. shirt was not our fault. We didn't do that thing that you filmed us doing. Dave is not responsible for the actions of Steve. However Steve is partially responsible for the actions of Dave. Sometimes. The content of this website may not be reproduced or recreated in any form, especially in any form that makes us look bad. Alright. Now that that is out of the way, how are you? Have you called your mother recently? She misses you. She wants you to eat your vegetables. While wearing a Steve. or Dave. shirt, because she doesn't actually like you and wants to pretend that you are not her child. That's not really true. You know that. But really, buy a shirt and call your mom and tell her about it. She will most likely be very confused, but when she gets the one you mailed her she will be thrilled. Now the only descision is...is your mom a Steve. or a Dave.? Does it really matter? Buy a damn shirt.
Call your mother.
Thank you. Have a nice day.

They have a facebook group with a total of 83 members. They've even hopped on the twitter train. I am pretty sure that world domination is next on their task-list. Be a trend-setter in your town - buy your very own shirt here.

Did I mention we love our photographer?

2009-09-14T20:15:00.000-07:00

Source: Pensieri spettinati

I feel like the luckiest bride in Seattle: the wonderful Kristen Honeycutt will be preserving our special day ala photographs. When we were first engaged, we both instantly gravitated towards selecting a photographer. That was at the top of my list...and the top of BT's (Trevor - it's a nickname...and a bit of a story...so we'll save that.) list too. Why did photography top our lists? We love photos. When we're old, grey, sitting in rocking chairs on the front porch of some fabulous vacation home out by The Gorge - we'll have two things

Our Memories. (Unless, of course, we grow forgetful with age...)
Our Photographs. (Unless, God Forbid, something horrible like a flood or fire happens, but then again...we live in the digital age. Back-up, baby.)

There were tons of things that we discussed while looking at different photographers. What's the style we're going for? How long have they been in the business? Why are they in the business? Meet with them... What's the chemistry like? [I know this sounds silly but...] Who is their favorite band? What kinds of movies do they like? What kind of packages do they offer? Will they customize something for us? Do they write up a fair offer and/or contract? What are their terms for the whole payment/deposit part? The list can go on and on and on and on.....

Have you shot a wedding at my location before?
Do you have an assistant?
Do you have backup equipment and is it the same quality as the primary equipment?
What time will you begin and how long will you stay until?
When will the proofs be ready?
Do we get to keep the proofs?
Do you mark your proofs?
Where and how are your proofs marked?
How much extra for unmarked proofs?
Do we get to keep our negatives?
How long do you keep the negatives and will you sell them to us?
Do you use high speed film to expose natural light?
Do you have tele-photo and wide-angle lenses?
Do you work well with the other vendors? i.e.: coordinators, caterers, videographers.
Can you work from a photo checklist that we create?
How will you be dressed?
Do you process and develop your own film and prints?

So, back to Kristen. Just have a peep at her blog...she's amazing. There are a few choice reasons that we went with Kristen. She's local - she lives in Bothell. So do we! "For a day or a lifetime..." She knows the area. She went to school with my co-worker's wife and she shot their engagement photos. He had only nice things to say about Kristen...and the photos spoke for themselves. She's amazing. She's a true talent. I feel so lucky to be working with her.

The icing on the cake? She's a fan of Dave Matthews Band.

Done.

Deal.

Plus Kristen takes the most UH-MAZE-ING baby, toddler, and family portraits. I have a feeling that we'll be see a lot of Kristen over the years. :) I think we've found our girl! So, our photographer was our first official booked vendor. Venue? Check? Cupcakes? Check. DIY To-Do List? Check. [DIY Projects? Uhhhhh....they're WIP's...] Coordinator? Check. Music? Check. Hair? Check. Dress? Almost!!! :)

Please check out the ever-so-lovely Kristen Honeycutt. You will be impressed. What was one of the items that topped your list?

Farm? BARN?!? Yup.

2009-09-14T17:29:00.000-07:00

Yup. It's true. We're getting married on a farm. And it's the cutest, most charming farm out there. Craven Farm is nestled out in Snohomish, Washington - about two miles from the home of Trevor's Parents.

Trevor spent his high school Friday nights at the river across the street having bonfires on the riverbank. Eva spent high school and college out on "Eva Island" in the middle of the river. This area is a place that feels like home to us.

From Craven's website:

Set deep in the heart of the Snohomish Valley, Craven Farm is the premier farm wedding destination, located on a quiet country road at the base of Lord's Hill. Country charm greets you as your enter the farm. Authentic country barns, open fields in their seasonal splendor and groomed gardens surround the wedding barn.

Craven Farm Inc. offers the perfect blend of country charm and sophisticated elegance. A mountain vista and floral gardens surround the farm, adding to the captivating and romantic setting for your special event. In the summertime, hot air balloons dance across the sky and skydivers land gracefully in the fields surrounding our farm. The hush of the valley's quiet afternoons along with beautiful sunsets create the perfect setting for memories that will last a lifetime. Our charming wedding barn, decorated with twinkling ceiling lights and silverwood walls is an enchanting venue for your wedding ceremony and/or reception. The simple beauty of the interior enables you to dress it up or down to fit your theme and decor. No matter what you imagine your wedding to be, our staff is committed to turning your dream into reality.

It's such a gorgeous place with absolutely perfect country, shabby chic, charm.

Source: Barbie Hull Photography

Wedding...and Summer BBQ

2009-09-14T17:25:00.000-07:00

Trevor and I are pretty casual people. We're the kind of people that would choose a BBQ with a keg and 20 of our closest friends over dinner at a fancy restaurant with another couple.

Which brings me to our idea for catering. BBQ. When we met with our venue, Craven Farm (which I will introduce in a fastly approaching blog post...), the owner, Mark, provided us with a list of vendors that he's worked with in recent years. One BBQ company caught our eye:

Source: Smoke a Fat One BBQ

They don't have a restaurant...they just participate in BBQ competitions and cater events. I called last year and spoke with one of the owners. She said that she'd give us a call during "competition season" and let us know when and where we can fill a cooler with a hefty sampling of their delicious BBQ delights.

Sure enough, last month, I received the call. Next Saturday, before we head to Monore, Washington for a family friend's wedding...we'll be on Alki Beach in West Seattle filling our tummies and a cooler with some of Seattle's finest BBQ.

I can't wait. Doesn't this look like a BBQ outfit that you should sample?

I think that this is the part of the wedding planning that Trevor is looking forward to the most. What part of your upcoming wedding is your counterpart taking ownership of?

Yet another reason Martha is one of my heros!

2009-09-12T22:22:00.000-07:00

I didn't want to wear a checked shirt and grow a mustache - that's what you had to do, and everyone did.

~ Neil Tennant

I ran across a photo months ago that has stuck with me for quite some time....

betsywhite flights of fancy

I fell in love. I can just see it...our crazy group of friends...running around with mustaches on sticks. Perfect. Perfect!!! This needs to happen.

I started searching. Holly and I went to Archie McPhee's in Wallingford. The home of "Bacon Soap", "Bacon Band-Aids", "Yodeling Pickle" (which Holly pointed out she already had at home!), and almost anything else your heart might desire. But...no mustaches on sticks. Nothing. I was shocked.

Thank God for Google. And Martha. Look what is on my list of DIY projects! :) Mason - wanna help a girl out? I see this being a great Dinner/Wine/DIY night project.

Martha Stewart

Thank you Martha.

Is your list of DIY projects ever-growing?

“You are never fully dressed until you wear a smile...”

2009-09-11T22:59:00.000-07:00

I'm not sure who said it, but the saying “You are never fully dressed until you wear a smile..." is totally right.

Sunday. This Sunday I am going to go look at dresses. I'm not buying anything, and I hope I don't fall in love with anything. I just want to see what's out there. Feel the different fabrics. Check out different styles. See what looks good. I'm just..."testing the waters..."

Of course, I must be honest, I've been stalking dress catalogs, websites, designers, shops...anything and everything "DRESSES" since about August 29th of 2008. (Ok, so maybe I picked up an issue of Martha Stewart Weddings a time here or there before the engagement...)

My current inspiration? Vintage. Fun old-school shapes.

TREVOR: If you're snooping around - I'd prefer to totally surprise you.

So, unfortunately, your journey stops here, babe.

Well, let's get on with it....time for pictures!

Remember: You can always click on the photo for a closer view. :)

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Stephanie James Couture

Dolly Couture

Carolina Herrera

Blog: Inspired Bride

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Well, there you have it. Who knows though, I might try on a shorter-funky-vintage inspired dress and learn that I look silly in it. I might end up in something completely different.

What did your dream wedding dress look like? Are you open to ideas?

Uggghhh......

2009-09-11T11:26:00.000-07:00

You see that large glass? The big one? Yeah. That's the one.

My girlfriend Holly has the most fabulous Riedel wine glasses that hold about a half bottle of wine each. Her glasses aren't as HUGE as the one in the photo (that holds an entire bottle)...but they're pretty big. These glasses are so nice and thin that they make a $8 bottle of Woodbridge Chardonnay taste like La Crema.

My brain hurts this morning...to say the least. Thank God for McDonald's Hash Browns, OJ, Water, and Advil. :)

What? What?! What?!?

2009-09-10T11:09:00.000-07:00

No way. No way! When I logged into my Blogger dealio this morning, I started going through my little reading list thingy. Peanut Petunia had some new posts. Yay! (Love my Mason.) Another girlfriend from work, Undomesitc Chica, had some new posts too... Yay! (I love my morning reading.) So I am reading away...drinking my coffee...when I stumble across an award.

An award? ME? What?!?

How fun! Undomesitc Chica, who happens to be one of the sweetest girls, announced my very first blog-award. How cool! Thank you so much Chica.

This award is bestowed on to blogs that are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers. deliver this award to six bloggers who must choose six more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award. I will pass this award to some of my bloggy friends that I find exceedingly charming…

Now to bestow it upon 6 others....

Living and Teaching in South Korea : My brother. His blog is super-duper interesting... He has embarked on a new, rather exciting adventure. In early September, he left the country once again (he spent 08/09 in Germany), this time towards Asia - South Korea, to be more specific. He found a job as an English teacher over there. Darn US economy...

My Understanding of the Heart, Mind, and Spirit : My friend - Eric "Douche" Barcus. This man is super spiritual....very interesting.

Vintage Simple : life * design * home. 'nuff said.

Shabby Cottage Studio : The world of Altered Art & Mixed Media Collage.

Decorating a Modern Home : Simply lovely.

Vintage Glam Weddings : I had to have a wedding blog on my list. Come on people!

So, there you go. :) Thanks again Chica!

A DMB Preview....

2009-09-06T14:21:00.000-07:00

This is how our day started yesterday... at the Gorge to see Dave.

A sign from God, perhaps?

...more to come soon.

Current Obsession: Cake Stands

2009-09-03T21:31:00.000-07:00

I guess this isn't a new obsession. I started collecting cake stands when I was in college. There's just something about a pretty dessert displayed delicately on a vintage looking cake stand. Trevor and I have decided that we're doing cupcakes for our wedding. We're both not fan of cakes...and have RARELY actually enjoyed wedding cake at weddings. We love cupcakes. And we happen to live in a city with a plethora of cupcake boutiques.

I was lucky enough to go to a recent wedding out at the same venue that we'll be getting married at. Guess what? They had cupcakes. (Hmm....trend?) I wanted to have one. I needed to have one. There was only one problem - they had the cupcakes elegantly displayed on a giant tiered stand right by the dance floor. Center stage. The main attraction. With my luck, my "healthy-buzz" from the fabulous micro-brew(ssssssss) would play a trick on me and I would end up on the floor covered in hundreds of delicious cupcakes. I ended up avoiding the daunting cupcake stand all night.

So, I've come up with [what I think is] a fabulous idea...
...Each table will be decorated with a fabulous market-style floral centerpiece in some sort of fun container (watering can, mason jar, basket...anything charming...)...there will also be some candles...and to top everything off:

CAKE STANDS.

Each table will have it's own cake stand with mini cupcakes. No waiting in line. No waiting to cut the cake. No fear of "I'm going in to grab one cupcake...wait...maybe not...I'll end up wearing the entire display." None of that.

Eat. Eat them all. Enjoy the cupcakes my pretties. Another bonus? Have as many as you want, only the people at your table will know. There's no going back to the giant stand of cupcakes in front of EVERYONE for seconds, thirds, fourths... Just reach across the table and grab one off your cute little stand.

Another plus to this idea? I get to collect more cake stands. Yessssssss.

Ahhhh...cake stands. I love you.

Current Obsession: Blue Ball Mason Jars

2009-09-03T21:25:00.000-07:00

The photo that started it all:

We're getting married next summer at a farm out in Snohomish, Washington. The farm is super charming...gorgeous gardens...shabby, yet chic, barns...tons of space...fresh air.

The barn is a huge hall with giant wooden doors on each end. We'll have these doors open to keep the air moving throughout the warm summer night. (Keeping fingers crossed...weather Gods...please be on our side!!!) Up against each of the non-door walls of the barn are ledges that can accommodate candles, flowers, twinkle lights...

Today I stopped in at the Kirkland Value Village and found a vintage Blue Ball Mason Jar. Just like in Martha's picture. How much? Only 69 cents. I've been eying these babies for a while on ebay. Sometimes you can find them on craigslit. People charge a ton for these simple jars.

Now I am on a mission. I will hit up every Value Village, St. Vincent de Paul, and Good Will until I have all the mason jars I think I'll need. Who knows when enough will be enough.

Hey - if you have any you'd like to sell or loan - let me know!!!

Current Obsession: Succulents

2009-09-03T21:15:00.000-07:00

I need to come up with a creative way to integrate succulents into the wedding. We're already going for a "wild flower" look. Current inspiration for bouquets/centerpieces:

...but look at these GORGEOUS succulents!!!

Succulents are so simple. So chic. They remind me of my Grandma Arlene. She was quite the lady. I remember her garden had succulents - ton's of "hens and chicks." I have a few out on my patio garden...

Maybe this will be one of the ways that I tie a special memory into our big day.

Hmmm....

DIY Project: 1 of 2,359,541....and a half.

2009-09-03T20:40:00.000-07:00

So almost exactly one year ago, 8.29.08, Trevor popped the question.

The following weekend while shopping I found myself tickled-pink by monograms. Any "E", "T", "R"..."e", "t", "r"... they had to be mine. I started a collection. I have about five paintings I started. Countless wooden letters. Some sitting by the tv...some sitting on my desk...and a fabulous new "R" that I found at TJ Maxx this evening. (If they had ten, I probably would have bought them all.)

...And then I started this project: the Styrofoam, glittery, topiary monograms...

Little Grace decided to make her first appearance...

A close-up of the "e"...

The little birds and TOP-HAT Holly and I decided to add at the last minute...

I finished one set last fall and started a second set over the winter...and then I ran out of the glittery leaves that I was using. So, as soon as Michael's has the Christmas themed fake flowers again, I can finish. I guess I could go back now...

Who else starts projects and doesn't finish them?

...or lacks the motivation to finish!?

So....what is this all about?

2009-09-03T20:25:00.000-07:00

I work too much. I work a full time job at a local radio station. I work a full time job (at home) planning a wedding. My obsessive compulsive disorder tricks me into also working full time as a housekeeper... housewife... personal chef... baker... "Martha"... craft-project-guru... dog-walking machine... whatever.

...the only problem is: I love everything I do, I just happen to exhaust myself with projects.

So, why not blog about it? Whine about my stresses to the world-wide-interwebs...Shout with joy after completing a successful DIY project....Obsessively pick apart my post-it twelve month to-do list with "his tasks", "her tasks", "our tasks", and "just get it done" color-coded wedding planning board.

Yeah. That's me. Over organized, double checking, re-confirming Eva. Enjoy.

"She said yes!"

2009-08-26T21:42:00.001-07:00

DMB @ The Gorge - 8.29.08

Press play. This song is the perfect soundtrack to our story. :)

In the end of August 2006, Eva and Trevor went to see Dave Matthews Band at The Gorge. This is Eva's "happy place." Only good things happen at DMB. Eva had tickets, thought Trevor was fun (and adorable) and invited him away for a weekend of fun, adventure, and amazing music. That weekend Eva & Trevor fell in love.
...Jump forward to August 2008.

Eva and Trevor left for their annual trip to see DMB at The Gorge...a weekend to celebrate their love, laugh, and live life like they had no responsibilities whatsoever. We set up camp at our regular spot at Getty's Cove - and just so happened to be camping by a group of boys Eva graduated with. We played Frisbee, had some beers with the guys, and set up camp.
A couple of hours before sunset, we decided it was time to leave and head to The Gorge to see the first of three amazing shows... On the way, Trevor asked Eva if she wanted to stop off at the Wild Horses Monument and check out the view. Eva had spent the 2006 and 2007 DMB weekends begging Trevor to stop here...so she immediately jumped at the opportunity. They arrived at the viewpoint, parked, and got out of the car. Eva and Trevor walked around - spent time enjoying the amazing view and calming sound of the wind blowing through the Columbia River Gorge together.
Then things got uncomfortable.
Eva knew something was going to happen.
Trevor threw his hands up in the air and said, "I've just got to do this now - it's killing me!"
He got down on one knee.
What he said, Eva will never completely remember. She laughed, she screamed...and yes...she may have cussed. (All out of complete and utter joy, of course.)
Trevor proposed marriage. Eva said "YES!!!"
And the newly engaged left for the concert, ready to celebrate their engagement for the rest of the weekend with friends - old and new.

After the four day weekend, Eva and Trevor came home to Bothell. Eva ran into her parent's home screaming, "We're getting married!!!" ...only to find that Trevor had arranged for The Wackers and The Riebs to meet and celebrate together. The two families sat together and, over a bottle of delicious wine courtesy of The Riebs, celebrated the great news.

Q) So...How exactly did you two meet?

2009-08-26T21:40:00.000-07:00

A) Well...That's an interesting story...

Trevor and Eva met in early 2006. Trevor was living with one of Eva's best girlfriends (and Matron of Honor), Tessa Bear, and her fiance, Tyler Harp. The first meeting didn't go too good. While Tyler and Trevor were playing poker at Highway 9 Casino, Tessa and Eva were playing up at the Tulalip Casino. The girls finished up early, and on their way home they stopped at HWY 9.

...And then Trevor and Eva met. She thought he was loud, obnoxious, and annoying. He thought that she was overbearing, bossy, and cold.

Jump forward the beginning of August 2006...

Eva and Tessa went out for drinks and dancing at McCabes American Music Cafe.

They were having a girls night... Tessa kept telling Eva that Trevor was asking about her. Tyler kept telling Trevor that Eva thought he was cute. Obviously, Tessa and Tyler were up to something...matchmaking, perhaps? ;)

As the night continued on, Eva and Tessa continued to have a good time. They had such a good time that they decided it would be best to call "the boys" for a ride home. The girls called the boys, and the boys played hard to get. Eva asked to talk to Trevor. She teased him with a dance at McCabes before everyone left to head home...

...the boys decided to save the day.

Trevor and Eva stayed up all night - talking, laughing, telling stories. Eva woke up the next morning - Trevor had set up a bed for her and cared for her.

The following Monday morning, Eva woke up to a text message from a phone number she didn't recognize. The text read, "Good Morning Sweetie."

...and, as they say, the rest is history.

Our Story

2009-08-26T21:34:00.000-07:00

Trevor: He was a single guy, living the single lifestyle trying to figure out what he was supposed to do...while also renting a room in our friend's home (Tyler and Tessa Harp).

Eva: She was a recent UW college graduate and full time employee at a local radio station, and was on a path to rediscover herself.

And then we met.

Our friends say that we went missing for about six months - but what they don't know is that we weren't missing - we were busy falling in love. Going out dancing, going out to dinner, watching TV, talking all night... We finally resurfaced.

Now a few years have passed and we've decided: we're gettin' hitched. (With our parents' blessings, of course.)

We're so excited to be spending the rest of our lives together.